We survived the first day!!!
As expected, it was a long day.
Gavin had four sessions today, and talk about boot camp! Poor Gavin handled today so well. I was amazed at his excitement to get in the
chair and “take his bites” each time. Of
course he had the whole place talking about that “cute little man” by the end
of the day! J
We started the first two sessions with me going through our
normal “exercise” routine and feeding Gavin while Dr. Clawson and another
therapist watched from another room.
They needed to get a baseline for what feeding is like at home and
justify the need for us being there. Of
course, I wanted to show off Gavin’s best side and brought the four foods we
have been successful with…yogurt, a banana/applesauce puree, a pear/applesauce
puree, and pureed carrots. Dr. Clawson
thought it best to try some new purees as well to fully capture the raging
battle that feeding can be, and boy did they get their money’s worth for the
show!! My sweet little boy turned into a
monster! He threw toys, tried to hit me,
screamed, kicked, and told me “No Mommy! No, no, I do not like that!! Turn that spoon upside down!!!” It was REAL fun! Needless to say, they did not kick us out day
one. We have some issues to work
through.
The next two sessions were with two different therapists. I got to sit and watch them almost effortlessly
feed Gavin those foods that I had brought that he actually tolerates. It didn’t seem quite fair that they got to
breeze through the easy meal and stuck me with the hard stuff!! I guess they were trying to gage his actual
skills at this point. I’m happy to say
that I think he at least passed the skills portion of the evaluation pretty
well! He only gagged once, but was able
to recover quickly. The therapists were
all amazing and Gavin warmed up to them within minutes…which is hard to do with
GavinJ
Our lives have begun to revolve around toys! We are happily moved into “The Clown House”
(a.k.a. The Ronald McDonald House) where there are TONS of toys. Then we go to the clinic with a playroom that
is also full of more toys. Whenever we
needed to go back to the house or to the clinic, I simply had to remind Gavin
of a toy at the other location and we were off!
Hopefully there are enough toys between the two places that the novelty
doesn't wear off in two months!
Tomorrow we will meet with Dr. Clawson and the therapists to
see what their plan is for Gavin. I am
anxious to hear what they think! We also
meet with a pediatrician who will be following Gavin medically while we’re
here. I’m hopeful that a lingering ear
infection has cleared up completely. He
seems to have gotten over all the congestion associated with the bug, which
should be a good sign!
We have gotten fairly settled into the Ronald McDonald House
now. There is another mom and her 20
month old son staying here who are also in the feeding clinic. She is so nice and sat with me for a while
last night to talk about their experiences thus far. Her son was weaned off his button after the
first week!!! The rest of the parents
here have babies in the NICU. It is so
sad to hear about what their sweet little guys are going through. It just reminds me how lucky we are to have a
relatively healthy little boy.
Volunteers have brought in dinner both nights, and all of the residence
sit at the same table, so it’s nice to not be alone for meals.
Congratulations on your first day Sandy and Gavin! I was thinking about you guys today. I am sure you will see success quickly! Give Gavin a hug for me! --Lisa
ReplyDeleteSounds like a fairly successful first day. I have never seen Gavin be anything but sweet. Sounds like he is adjusting well. I am so glad you have other parents to talk with, to eat your meals at the clown house with and to share together. You're both in my prayers. Tell Gavin all his friends and teachers at Primorse miss him!
ReplyDeleteLove, hugs and prayers,
Kandi Long
At last - your first day has come at the clinic after so much time. At some time in the past, someone said to me "one day at a time" - things will work out. Sounds like they have a wonder environment for the kids. Thinking of you. Love - Eileen
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